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22 things about 'Awfan

1. His full name is Wan Hamza 'Awfan. 

Hamza is the name of one of Rasulullah s.a.w. companion, who was feared for his strength by the kuffars during their time. Hamza was also nicknamed 'asadullah' which meant, 'the lion of Allah'. 'Awfan is derived from Allah's ism, Al-'Afuww (The Most Forgiving). Al Ghaffar also meant The Most Forgiving but from the Arabic language, al-'afuww means that Allah expiates your sins and your record becomes a clean slate. Which means, Allah forgives and He forgets. Al-ghaffar means that Allah forgives, but He doesn't forget; you still have a record of your sins and wrongdoings.

The reason for me naming him as such is because I want him to have the strength and spirit of Hamza, but also at the same time, have a mellow heart to find it in his heart to forgive and forget the wrong that people do to him. This is quite personal for me, because I too, aspire to forgive and forget, but I have a problem of letting go due to my compulsive and obsessive behavior. 

2. He was born at 12.47 p.m. on the 22nd of July, with epidural and via spontaneous vaginal delivery by chemical induction at Hospital Universiti Sains Malaysia, Kubang Kerian, Kelantan.

3. I was a 4th year dental student when he was born.

4. He was born flat and not crying. He was then resuscitated successfully by the labour room team. Alhamdulillah. 

5. He was born 2.6 kg. I wasn't able to forget that because of the 2.6 billion scandal. What a thing to remember. 

6. He is a mix of Melanau, Malay, Chinese and Indian. 

7. He likes to engage in rowdy activities, such as jumping, tackling me (sigh)

8. He is starting to talk a lot, mostly gibberish.

9. He loves action figures. 

10. He likes to drink sweet drinks, especially vitagen.

11. I do a caries check now and then to make sure his pearly whites are healthy. 

12. He likes to play on the slides at the playground.

13. He loves running around. 

14. He likes to eat flavoured rice (nasi beriani, nasi ayam, nasi sup) and bubur lambuk. 

15. He likes to eat chocolate cookies.

16. He is more inclined to act out when he's with me than when he's with his dad. 

17. He likes to watch Boboiboy. 

18. He loves cuddling. 

19. He loves to climb things.

20. He understands simple orders or directions now. 

21. His cry is loud and deafening. 

22. His favourite parent is me (i'm 100% sure!)


Happy birthday kiddo! Happy turning into 2 years old. A critical and daunting age (sigh). 


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