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TLC & Meet Up

In the name of Allah,
Most Gracious, Most Merciful,
Praise be to Allah,
the Cherisher and Sustainer of the Worlds,
and Peace and Prayer be upon the Final Prophet and Messenger. Abdullah Yusuf Ali, The Holy Quran

Biasa kalau kat uni ni, kalau yang kena repeat year, walaupun ada ramai, tapi yang stand out mesti yang pakai tudung labuh.

Kalau yang kawin awal jugak, walaupun la ramai, tapi yang orang nampak, mesti yang pakai tudung labuh. 

“Oh, biasa la tu. Yang pakai tudung labuh mesti study x berapa mantap.”
“Oo budak yang pakai tudung labuh tu eh? Biasa la tu kalau budak-budak macam tu kawin awal.”

Tapi jugak, kalau yang buat kerja-kerja untuk program dakwah, dalam ramai-ramai tu, yang tudung labuh jugak yang stand out. Mesti dorang je yang kena puji, yang lain seolah-olah buat kerja tu semata-mata nak dapat merit(points yang kitorang kena kumpul kalau kitorang nak duduk asrama dalam uni) je.

Kenape eh macam ada stereotaip?

Macam tak faham apa kaitan saiz tudung dengan perkara-perkara yang disebutkan di atas. =_=”

Kadang-kadang rasa annoyed dengan benda-benda ni, sebab, well, saya repeat kan so like, “It’s not like I’m repeating this year because I’m dumb okayyyy”. Pastu ade jugak stereotaip yang kalau budak-budak pakai tudung labuh ni, mesti akan jalan satu geng. Siap kena label TLC lagi. Tau apa tu TLC?

Tudung Labuh Clan.

Nama macam lawak. Macam power rangers pun ade. Bila baca balik apa yang tulis ni, rasa macam I’m not making any sense and why am I writing in a market language(read: bahasa pasar)?

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So, anyways, inshaAllah this weekend, I am gonna meet up with my dear mummy in Nilai(don’t go to LCCT this Friday after 6.10 p.m. cause you might bump into me, provided that you know how i look like. Ha!).

 Excited? You betcha. ;)


just to show u how excited i am

Now, back to my daily routine.



 


"Sometimes we can't just say "Allah has a better plan for us." 
We have to believe He does."
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  1. A.April 4, 2012 at 3:59 AM

    lol tlc... XD

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  2. A.April 4, 2012 at 4:10 AM

    Em, on a more serious note...sebab western civilization ajar kita yang orang Islam lemah. So our own rakyat pun, bila tengok orang kuat agama, automatically click in our brain; uneducated, kolot, kampung. Macam bila kita tengok orang Indonesia kerja kat Malaysia: kuli, orang gaji, construction worker. Biar tak semua macam tu pun. Very untrue but real nonetheless. Macam zaman dulu (and zaman sekarang pun to some extent) anak orang kaya yang belajar obersi semua mana pakai tudung, budak sekolah bagus-bagus semua pakai shorts, pinafore. tu uniform sekolah. so now, life is getting a bit better, uniform sekolah pun dah tukar semua, boleh pakai baju kurung kalau nak. tapi mentaliti lambat sikit, sebab we still watch american shows, we still speak british english. that's my idea lah. so kalau nak ubah stereotype, orang yang di-stereotype tu lah yang kena prove otherwise. Nak expect diorang fikir sendiri, sampai bila-bila pun tak ke mana. Sebab the basis and truth of their thought tu ada, it's just not the same any more but they haven't quite caught up with it yet. People judge, memang dah sifat manusia. But their opinion doesn't matter anyway. You don't hurt them so they shouldn't be able to hurt you.

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  3. The Rocking HijabApril 4, 2012 at 10:27 AM

    Aha. Yeah i guess. Sometimes rasa mcm pressured cuz I feel like i have to prove something you know. Heh. I guess then it's my responsibility to prove it otherwise. (muka tabah)

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  4. NajApril 4, 2012 at 11:45 AM

    so funny...:)
    yeah, agree with u Farah...it was a really2 true scenario...but the sad thing is, it's our own muslim mentality...if u are able to prove otherwise, then do it...wish u best of luck :)

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  5. The Rocking HijabApril 4, 2012 at 12:14 PM

    inshaAllah. yosh!!! XDDD

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  6. AnonymousApril 5, 2012 at 4:13 PM

    hehe kita pon x suka org label melabel tapi x boleh lari dari surrounding yang begitu. Apa yg kita salu ingatkan dalam diri ialah,

    aku buat nni sbb nak please Allah bukan nak pelase manusia, so pekak kan telinga klu ada dengar bunyik2 yg mcm x best sgt..hehe

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  7. faiqApril 7, 2012 at 9:03 PM

    tudung labuh clan ???
    macam world of warcraft or mmorpg or starwars etc lak, siap ada clan2... hehee funny.
    =P sengal ayam tol...

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