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Being Nisa


Last night I went all hormonal like a drunk chick and said stuffs I shouldn't have, crying and blubbering on the phone like an idiot, only to wake up the next day, that is today, feeling like an utter moron and wish that the world could swallow me up now. 

Now, if there's one thing I hate, it is  when my gender is being used as an excuse to go all emotional and what not. It's like saying, "Yeah, you can do stupid stuffs without thinking, cause you're after all, a woman." And all that 9 nafsu 1 akal thingie? I don't know if there's a hadith about that or the Quran mentioning about this.

I have nothing against guys leading and all because I know women are not created to do so, unless when there are no suitable candidates for the position(that's why we have women presidents you know). I won't start a rally or something. I just wish sometimes being emotional is not something that is only entitled to us women. I mean, haven't you seen a guy get mad before? Sometimes over such a trivial thing like soccer. 

So yeah, I guess it's not fair to say that only women go emotional and got blamed for their hormones when they do. And even when they can't drive or stuffs like that, people always tend to smirk and say, "Women drivers. LOL". That's what we call as lack of practice or skills. That doesn't have anything to do with being a woman. 

Oh and to be clear, this is not an emotional post. Just felt like voicing this out. 

I love being a girl. Women rocks!


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